You said no. You were kind about it. And yet you're rereading their response, wondering if you said it wrong. If healing has made some of your relationships feel different, harder even, here's why that's not a sign you're doing something wrong.

You sent the no. Then you checked your phone twice in ten minutes, waiting to see how they'd take it. If setting boundaries leaves you anxious and guilty even when you know you did nothing wrong, here's why that discomfort isn't the red flag it feels like.